Verb + -ing (gerund)

These verbs are always followed by -ing, never to + infinitive:

admitavoidconsider denyenjoyfancy finishimaginekeep (on) mindpostponerisk stopsuggestcan't help dislikefeel likegive up put offgo onmiss practicequitrecommend
VerbExample
enjoyI enjoy reading in the evenings. (✗ enjoy to read)
mindWould you mind closing the door?
admitHe admitted lying to his parents about the accident.
denyThe player denied fouling his opponent.
suggestShe suggested going to the movies.
avoidHe tried to avoid answering my question.
postponeWe postponed launching the website until next week.
riskShe's risking losing her job by arriving late every day.
finishI'll call you when I've finished cleaning the apartment.
keep on / keepYou keep interrupting when I'm talking!
give upMy uncle gave up smoking three years ago.
put offDon't put off finishing your homework until Sunday night.
can't helpI can't help laughing every time he tells that joke.
feel likeDo you feel like watching a movie tonight?
Negative form: After enjoy, mind, choose and suggest we use "not -ing…" for the negative form (e.g., "When I'm on vacation, I enjoy not having to get up early." · "That place seems dangerous, I suggest not going there." · "I don't mind not telling mom, as long as you promise me you won't do it again." · "I choose not to go there.")
A special case: imagine We all know that imagine is always followed by an -ing verb, object + -ing, a that-clause, or as (e.g., "I imagine living in a mountain." · "I imagine you wearing a funny hat." · "Imagine that you were on a deserted island and I were with you and I told you not to panic."). However, in some dictionaries like the online Oxford dictionary or Macmillan, we see "imagine" can also be used with object + to be/do. This is true because the construction "imagine SB/STH to verb" is standard English and expresses a belief which is held (present) or was held and is no longer (past): "Having heard his voice, I imagine him to be a large man in his fifties." · "I imagined him to be a large man in his fifties, so imagine my surprise when I found out he was a schoolboy only 17 years old!"

Verb + to + infinitive

These verbs are followed by to + infinitive:

affordagreeask expectchoosearrange decidedeservefail forgethopelearn manageofferplan preparepromiserefuse threatenwould likeseem appeartendpretend claimdare
VerbExample
decideWe decided to take a taxi home.
chooseShe chose to study abroad instead of staying home.
agreeDavid agreed to help me.
arrangeWe arranged to meet at the coffee shop at noon.
deserveYou deserve to win this award — you worked so hard.
failHe failed to mention that the flight was delayed.
manageWe managed to get to the airport on time.
affordThey can't afford to eat out very often.
refuseShe refused to tell me her name.
promiseI promised not to be late.
planThey plan to renovate the kitchen next summer.
threatenThe company threatened to sue if we didn't pay.
would likeWould you like to join us for dinner?
pretendMy brother pretended to be asleep when Mom called him.
claimHe claims to know the owner of the restaurant.
seem / appear / tendHe seems to have plenty of money.
Negative form: The negative is not to… (e.g., "We decided not to tell him that because it would hurt him." · "I expect not to see you around here again." · "She pretended not to see me, and it made me so angry!")
A question of emphasis: Some verbs are followed by to + infinitive but that does not mean other words (adverbs, for example) cannot appear in the phrase. Compare: "Mother said I can choose to go anywhere this summer." (the implication is that you can choose to go anywhere or not to go anywhere — the choice is about going or not) vs. "Mother said I can choose anywhere to go this summer." (the implication is that you are going somewhere and can choose the destination — the choice is about where, not whether you will go). The difference is really one of emphasis and will depend upon the context.
Continuous and perfect infinitive: In some cases, you can also use verb + to inf + verb-ing (to be doing) as well as verb + to inf + perfect infinitive (to have done) (e.g., "Julian pretended to be reading the newspaper." (= he pretended that he was reading) · "We seem to have lost our way." · "You seem to be enjoying this moment.")
Dare: After dare, you can use a verb with or without to (e.g., "I wouldn't dare to call my boss at this hour." or "I wouldn't dare call my boss at this hour.")

Verb + question word + to

After some verbs, you can use a question word (what / whether / how, etc.) + to…. This is especially common after:

askdecideknow rememberforgetlearn understandwonderexplain
VerbExample
askWe asked how to get to the station.
decideHave you decided where to go for your vacation?
knowI don't know whether to apply for the job or not.
understandDo you understand what to do?
Also: show / tell / ask / advise / teach somebody what / how / where to do something (e.g., "Can somebody show me how to change the film in this camera?" · "Ask Jack. He'll tell you what to do.")

Verbs that take both — with a meaning change

Verb+ -ing+ to
stop He stopped smoking.
(he no longer smokes)
He stopped to smoke.
(he paused in order to smoke)
remember I remember closing the window.
(I closed it, and I remember that I did this)
I remember taking the chicken out of the freezer.
(I took the chicken out of the freezer and I remember that I did this)
I remembered to close the window.
(I remembered that I had to close it, so I did)
Please remember to pay the electricity bill.
(don't forget to do this)
try Try adding some lemon.
(experiment — see if it helps)
She tried to open the door.
(attempt — it may not work)
forget I'll never forget meeting you.
(memory of a past event)
Don't forget to lock the door.
(task you must do)
regret I regret doing that, I'm so sorry.
(I did it and I'm sorry about it)
I regret to inform you that you haven't passed your exam.
(I'm sorry that I have to say something)
go on Things need to change, we can't go on living like this.
(continue doing something)
After living in Alaska, he went on to live in California.
(do or say something new)

Verbs with no difference in meaning

These verbs can be followed by either -ing or to + verb without a real change in meaning:

beginbothercontinue intendstart
+ -ing+ to
It started raining.It started to rain.
Don't bother taking off your shoes.Don't bother to take off your shoes.
One exception: we don't normally use -ing right after another -ing form: "It's starting to rain." (not "It's starting raining.")

Exercises

EXERCISE:

Exercise 1 — Verb + -ing

Complete each sentence with one of these verbs in the correct form: check, call, drive, sign, wash, park, eat, lose, speak, swim, finish, injure.

1. He tried to avoid his phone during the meeting.
2. Could you please stop me at midnight?
3. I enjoy along the coast on weekends.
4. I considered up for the marathon, but I changed my mind.
5. Have you finished the dishes yet?
6. Let's rent an apartment. I don't want to go on on the street every night.
7. I don't mind you in my car, just clean up after.
8. My grandmother keeps her glasses.
9. I've put off to my boss about the raise.
10. What a rude thing to do! Can you imagine anybody in a pool with their shoes on?
11. Marco gave up the puzzle after an hour.
12. If you skip leg day at the gym, you risk yourself.