Relative pronouns

PronounRefers toExample
who People The woman who called is my aunt.
which Things / animals The book which I borrowed was great.
that People or things (defining only) The car that he drives is very fast.
where Places The café where we met is closed now.
when Times I remember the day when we first met.
whose Possession (people or things) The student whose phone rang left the room.

Defining relative clauses

A defining clause identifies which person or thing we mean. Without it, the sentence loses its meaning.

RuleExample
No commasThe man who lives next door is a doctor.
Can use that instead of who/whichThe film that / which I watched was amazing.
Pronoun can be omitted when it is the objectThe book (that) I borrowed was great.
The police arrested the man who stole a woman's handbag. ← defines which man
He likes films that come from Asia. ← defines which films

Non-defining relative clauses

A non-defining clause adds extra information about something already identified. Remove it and the sentence still makes sense.

RuleExample
Always use commas (or dashes)My sister, who lives in Paris, is a chef.
Cannot use thatMy car, which is red, needs a service. ✗ "my car, that is red"
Pronoun cannot be omittedLondon, which I love, is very expensive.
Commas = extra info test: If removing the clause makes the sentence incomplete or changes who/what you mean — no commas (defining). If the sentence still identifies the noun perfectly — use commas (non-defining).
Defining (no commas)Non-defining (commas)
You have many friends — tells us which one You have one sister — adds extra detail
My friend who lives in Barcelona is called Sam. My sister, who works in a hotel, got a promotion.

Exercises

Defining or non-defining? Choose the correct sentence.

1. You have only one sister. Which is correct?

2. There are several jackets in the room. Which is correct?

3. You are talking about one room in your house. Which is correct?

4. There are two bags on the table — one is red, one is brown. Which is correct?

5. You have only one mobile phone. Which is correct?

6. You have many friends. Which is correct?